However, I am a nice guy... I try to follow the Golden Rule, whether towards men or women. But I do tease, don't I Miss X?
Edited by drbill, 28 December 2006 - 10:53 AM.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 10:52 AM
Edited by drbill, 28 December 2006 - 10:53 AM.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 12:49 PM
Posted 28 December 2006 - 01:53 PM
Really, which ones? (There are a few there just for comic releif.)
As far as the "M" word, I am looking for that, but it's not my goal. I was engaged once, and if you want to hear a really sad story, I'll tell you how it ended. Needless to say, it a huge reason I am like I am today.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 02:23 PM
Please define your term "whimpy" before I attack it.
I do not like wimpy guys I can take advantage of!
Posted 28 December 2006 - 02:37 PM
Please define your term "whimpy" before I attack it.
How about:I do not like wimpy guys I can take advantage of!
Some guys are "whipped" the minute the meet a woman. Anyone who is "whipped" comes across as a wimp.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 03:07 PM
Russian, Belorussian, and Ukrainian women are beautiful, they are wonderful ladies, but they live in countries with horrible economies. They are desperate to come to the US, Canada or western Europe. They will profess undying love just to escape the conditions under which they live.
Clean up your act and you won't need to look to the former Soviet Union for women.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 03:13 PM
Posted 28 December 2006 - 04:30 PM
Posted 28 December 2006 - 05:41 PM
Nah. You just need a strong enough guy that's not intimidated by women who can (and do) think for themselves. Besides, not needing a man, but choosing one anyway is much more meaningful. It frees you up to share your life with someone because you want to, not because you need to.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 06:18 PM
Have you ever met a woman from any of the former USSR countries, Walter?
Posted 28 December 2006 - 06:22 PM
Yes ~ It is frustrating.While good in theory, I too have experienced Colleen's problem. While men appear to like the independence at first, they get worried when there is nothing but your own free will holding you there. I have a great job, a great home, a nice car and am free to purchase whatever perks I tend to desire. I am confident and can hold my own in a social setting. I can fight my own fights and don't need someone to get my back. I have actually had more than one man tell me outright that they do not like the fact that I do not need them. Needless to say, those relationships fizzled shortly thereafter.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 08:03 PM
To add a different twist to this thread.
I live alone, own my house, dive, hike, bike, own a pet (or does she own me???)have a job and earn my own money.
I have been told that I am not needy enough to be considered as a potential date.
That I don't need a man in my life, since I am able to take care of things on my own.
I guess I will have to stop ~
doing all those things I love
using the intelligence I have aquired over 40 years of living
just to make myself needy enough to have a man ask me out.
On the other hand ~ I am enjoying my life.
I would love to have a man to share it with but if I have to stop being ME I would rather be alone.
I have no time for the "bad boys" or the "wimps".
Men who like themselves and are able to consider my input while also adding their own thoughts and ideas, are the ones who catch my interest
I have no desire to run anyones life but my own.
If I wanted to have someone who needed full time care I would have another child.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 08:27 PM
Nah. You just need a strong enough guy that's not intimidated by women who can (and do) think for themselves. Besides, not needing a man, but choosing one anyway is much more meaningful. It frees you up to share your life with someone because you want to, not because you need to.
While good in theory, I too have experienced Colleen's problem. While men appear to like the independence at first, they get worried when there is nothing but your own free will holding you there. I have a great job, a great home, a nice car and am free to purchase whatever perks I tend to desire. I am confident and can hold my own in a social setting. I can fight my own fights and don't need someone to get my back. I have actually had more than one man tell me outright that they do not like the fact that I do not need them. Needless to say, those relationships fizzled shortly thereafter.
Posted 28 December 2006 - 10:15 PM
Posted 28 December 2006 - 11:12 PM
Odd, I have heard the same from women. (Not that the women didn't need you - we are talking about me now, so keep up )I have actually had more than one man tell me outright that they do not like the fact that I do not need them. Needless to say, those relationships fizzled shortly thereafter.
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