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#1 wtxblaze

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Posted 24 August 2007 - 07:47 PM

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So what type of indication do you have to have to know if someone is interested in you?

Me? A 2x4 up side you head followed by "hey I like you, your cute" I know it seems a little hard headed of me, but thats the way I am. I flirt with gals but its all in fun, just trying to do my part and put a smile on someones face. So flirting to me is just a past time, each one putting a smile on each others face and seeing if you can make them blush. So when some gal flirts with me I think she is just being friendly. I really don't know if she is interested in me or just trying to make me smile.

So what do other people need to see or hear before there off the the chase.

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Posted 24 August 2007 - 07:59 PM

I can agree with he 2x4 being needed.
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Posted 24 August 2007 - 08:58 PM

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Posted 24 August 2007 - 09:20 PM

:D Hi, I'm Echo3 and I am also clueless in reading the opposite sex! :cheerleader:
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Posted 24 August 2007 - 11:26 PM

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So what type of indication do you have to have to know if someone is interested in you?

Me? A 2x4 up side you head followed by "hey I like you, your cute" I know it seems a little hard headed of me, but thats the way I am. I flirt with gals but its all in fun, just trying to do my part and put a smile on someones face. So flirting to me is just a past time, each one putting a smile on each others face and seeing if you can make them blush. So when some gal flirts with me I think she is just being friendly. I really don't know if she is interested in me or just trying to make me smile.

So what do other people need to see or hear before there off the the chase.





HMMMMmmmmmmmm........ this thread sounds familiar. :cheerleader:

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Posted 25 August 2007 - 12:48 AM

I remember one instance of a very attractive woman annoying the hell out of me... I just got angry, but years later I realized that I missed an opportunity there. A woman won't go that far out of her way to annoy someone unless she likes him. She just didn't know how to approach me and say "I like you"....Dammit!

So.... A 2x4 to the head.... In my case that wouldn't necessarily have worked either!

Yes ladies, we can be a bit dense sometimes, especially if you are sending us subtle indications! :cheerleader:

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Posted 25 August 2007 - 06:18 AM

It's all in eye contact within the first few moments.... at least if you are worth persuing a conversation with! Then it depends what you say.....
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Posted 25 August 2007 - 06:47 AM

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So what type of indication do you have to have to know if someone is interested in you?

Me? A 2x4 up side you head followed by "hey I like you, your cute" I know it seems a little hard headed of me, but thats the way I am. I flirt with gals but its all in fun, just trying to do my part and put a smile on someones face. So flirting to me is just a past time, each one putting a smile on each others face and seeing if you can make them blush. So when some gal flirts with me I think she is just being friendly. I really don't know if she is interested in me or just trying to make me smile.

So what do other people need to see or hear before there off the the chase.





HMMMMmmmmmmmm........ this thread sounds familiar. :cheerleader:


Yeah but different responses I'm sure. Besides sounds like it will be a great discussion!

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Posted 25 August 2007 - 06:49 AM

I remember one instance of a very attractive woman annoying the hell out of me... I just got angry, but years later I realized that I missed an opportunity there. A woman won't go that far out of her way to annoy someone unless she likes him. She just didn't know how to approach me and say "I like you"....Dammit!

So.... A 2x4 to the head.... In my case that wouldn't necessarily have worked either!

Yes ladies, we can be a bit dense sometimes, especially if you are sending us subtle indications! :cheerleader:



When we were kids we used that method...too bad she didn't finesse it a bit as she got older! :D

Of course it could also be a situation where she felt she had to respond that way...you know being one of the guys sort of thing.

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Posted 25 August 2007 - 07:04 AM

I usually need to be hit upside the head too with the 2 x 4.

So on your first dive together she slips out of her wet bathing suit and into dry clothes right in front of you, Was that a good sign?
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Posted 25 August 2007 - 07:40 AM

So on your first dive together she slips out of her wet bathing suit and into dry clothes right in front of you, Was that a good sign?


..she's probably just feeling cold .....
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Posted 25 August 2007 - 07:53 AM


So on your first dive together she slips out of her wet bathing suit and into dry clothes right in front of you, Was that a good sign?


..she's probably just feeling cold .....



:D

Actually I would of said yes...but maybe that depends on whether he saw anything or not! :cheerleader:

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Posted 25 August 2007 - 12:04 PM

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So what do other people need to see or hear...?


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Posted 25 August 2007 - 12:31 PM

Yeah but different responses I'm sure. Besides sounds like it will be a great discussion!




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Posted 25 August 2007 - 03:21 PM

Yeah but different responses I'm sure. Besides sounds like it will be a great discussion!




I'm not complaining. I need all the help I can get! :cheerleader:



Somehow I find that hard to believe...but then you haven't tried to date me! :wakawaka:

But speaking from a lot of experience being single...you just need to meet some great SingleDivers.com ladies! And well I think you are a keeper...so don't be surprised when I tell you "I told you so!!!" :cheerleader:

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