TO BE FAIR...let's have our Couples & Married members share "Relationship Success Tips"

Ok just to be fair...(we started a topic on your best dating tips) lets hear from our couples and/or married but buddyless divers on their favorite RELATIONSHIP SUCCESS TIPS!!!

So once you find someone...how do you keep them? How do you keep it fresh and fun? How do you not seem like the nag or parent...but remain the fun, flirty partner but still maintain true responsibility in the relationship to your partner?

We'd love your insight and thoughts and suggestions!

Ok I'll start... I find if you can keep the 'dating kindness' alive it keeps you from falling in the nagging/ignoring traps that people fall into. Sometimes its hard to have that kind of patience with someone but it beats the alternatives.

Anyone else?

Remember why you got together in the first place and always try to go back to that. Sometimes the things that initially draw you to each other are the first things we start to take for granted and stop doing.