11 admin/mods x 3000+ members, that's one hell of a spreadsheet. Folks obviously don't know the answer.
Actually, I started to do just that.
The problem was getting a good list of the members. I started working with only the members that have been active in the past few weeks as a start.
I had a method for generating all the combos of opposite sex (assuming we are talking about a traditional couple.)
If I would have gotten and answer to the "geographical region" question I asked, that would have helped alot!
Then I read the "1 guess per day rule" and realized it would take weeks to months with that method.
Hey, they don't call me "Megageek" for nothing!