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[Basslet]

(and causes most of us males to suffer the notorious affliction of "blue balls").

OMG, I haven't heard that guilt trip since I was in high school and my college-aged boyfriend used to lay it on me.

[drbill]

(and causes most of us males to suffer the notorious affliction of "blue balls").

OMG, I haven't heard that guilt trip since I was in high school and my college-aged boyfriend used to lay it on me.

"Lay it on " you?

Edited by drbill, 13 January 2006 - 09:51 AM.

[Basslet]

(and causes most of us males to suffer the notorious affliction of "blue balls").

OMG, I haven't heard that guilt trip since I was in high school and my college-aged boyfriend used to lay it on me.

"Lay it on " you?

Oh come on Bill. Stop being so darn horney. Surely you're old enough to remember that slang in a different context.

[drbill]

Oh come on Bill. Stop being so darn horney. Surely you're old enough to remember that slang in a different context.

There's another context???

I'm old enough that I can't remember!

Edited by drbill, 13 January 2006 - 01:53 PM.

[HAWKEYE1251]

.........Like when I was at a ski lodge and when I was leaving, the guide leaned over, put his arm around my waist, pulled me to him and gave me the most wonderful, passionate kiss. I still remember it 20 years later.

Damn, I remember that guy too!!!!! What was his name? I can't get that memory out of my mind either. I could slap the ship out of that guy. ......

When you're with a woman, and the moment presents itself to get hot and heavy, do you make the first move or wait for her to initiate?

By the time I got collected to answer, I had forgotten the question....

Once I read the question I remembered, I had forgotten what that would be like, hence I'm not sure what I would do. After reading everyone elses' answers, I realized that I am leading a very sheltered life, and I also realized, by others descriptions, that I would have to be hit with the 2" x 4". Though I know I would not be offended, it did occur to me that I might just pass out.

It is my opinion that getting older is not partial to ones desires.

If a mans wife is standing alone in the woods screaming derogatory comments at him, can he hear her?

No seriously, something like you describe happened to me. I am, as I mentioned before, the type that has to slapped to notice what is happening. I was working at a retail establisment about 14 years ago and I had a real fancy for a young lady that I worked with. I had noticed her even when I was there to interview for the position. After about a year, I was wandering through the area where she worked as she waited on a customer. As I walked by she asked for help finding something. I was able to immediately find and hand her the object. She then said " Man, your good" for which I replied " You haven't the faintest idea." Within 10 minutes she approached me and boldly said "Would like to have an affair?" (We were both separated and in process of divorce at the time). I very politely and gentlemanly answered, "You just name the place". After two or three evenings of messing around, we spent a wonderful few hours together in a very secluded place and though I'm not usually the type to do something like that, I will never regret it. It is a fond memory that can always make a fella smile even on his worst day.

Though my little story doesn't answer the question, and as many have said it depends on the person and circumstances, if the circumstances are acceptable and so is the companionship, then live by your own heart. If it is your desire to make the move, then move ahead. That would be who you are and that is o.k. The other person may just always appreciate the fondness for which you express, even if they decline, as they may always remember being flattered by the Fairybasslet.

Edited by HAWKEYE1251, 13 January 2006 - 08:25 PM.

[Dive_buddy]

"As her eyes became lost in the strength of his piercing gaze, Jessica felt her body weaken into Lance's firm grasp. Shocked at the wild urges stampeding across the plains of reason, she tried to back away, but couldn't. Her desire found her moving toward him as his normally rough hands found a gentle firmness against her skin that spoke truths she could no longer deny; that he was about to claim her forever..."

I don't know about the rest of you gals but I want Trace to finish this story...I know I'm hooked!

Ever see "Her Alibi"? :-)

[Dive_buddy]

..., do you make the first move or wait for her to initiate?

I would have to say yes. First, understand that if I'm gonna get hot and heavy with someone, then we are past the first few dates. (I may be easy, but I'm no tramp) :-)

I am not sure what today's politocaly correct term is, but I love to flirt with a woman and seduce her. Call me old fashioned, but I believe it is a lost art.

It starts out slow and subtle, flowers unexpectedly, opening doors and so on. If she is receptive, it moves to hand holding/kissing, a stolen kiss on the cheek, innuendo and such. If she is agreeable still, then we move on to what Trace described.

But to answer the question directly, yes I make the first move, and pay attention to how she responds.