I think it's worth finding out.
<insert standard disclaimer about dating men/women at the office >
Edited by PerroneFord, 04 October 2006 - 09:28 PM.
Posted 04 October 2006 - 09:27 PM
I think it's worth finding out.
Edited by PerroneFord, 04 October 2006 - 09:28 PM.
Posted 04 October 2006 - 09:39 PM
Is that the one about not peeing in your own pool?
I think it's worth finding out.
<insert standard disclaimer about dating men/women at the office >
Posted 04 October 2006 - 09:46 PM
Posted 04 October 2006 - 09:48 PM
Is that the one about not peeing in your own pool?
Yeah...that's another reason I've been draggin' my feet. I've never done it before. But heck, where I live, if you don't meet them at work you probably aren't gonna meet 'em.
Posted 04 October 2006 - 10:11 PM
Posted 04 October 2006 - 10:16 PM
Posted 05 October 2006 - 09:02 AM
Sounds like an excellent way to deal with the issue....WOW. A lot of good points have been made here and I agree with many. Back to the initial post, personally when I meet someone I am interested in and he asks for my number I give him my card and if he offers his in return I tell him that I won't be the first to call, I prefer for the man to be the agressor in the beginning. If he is interested, he calls. If not, as Perrone said, someone else does.
After the initial phone call, I have no issues calling him, inviting him out, etc....
Posted 05 October 2006 - 12:30 PM
Posted 05 October 2006 - 01:05 PM
I totally agree in the 50/50 rule except I've learned the hard way.... let the men call first. I will no longer call them. Why? I'm tired of being made the fool, being made fun of, being treated like trash, etc etc.... I will no longer 'chase' anyone first. Every single time I've made the first call, I get laughed at, called fat, treated inhumane and end up crying. It's not worth it anymore, I'm not playing that anymore.
Posted 05 October 2006 - 06:18 PM
I totally agree in the 50/50 rule except I've learned the hard way.... let the men call first. I will no longer call them. Why? I'm tired of being made the fool, being made fun of, being treated like trash, etc etc.... I will no longer 'chase' anyone first. Every single time I've made the first call, I get laughed at, called fat, treated inhumane and end up crying. It's not worth it anymore, I'm not playing that anymore.
Welcome to what we have had to deal with since middle school. And unlike women, WE don't get together with our friends in your presence, shoot glances your way, and laugh.
Posted 05 October 2006 - 07:18 PM
Communication...you tell him what you expect. He doesn't have to read your mind. He knows that if he wants to talk to you, he'll have to call. Takes the guess work out of it for both of you because you can then safely assume he isn't interested if you haven't heard from him....if he offers his in return I tell him that I won't be the first to call...
If he is interested, he calls. If not, as Perrone said, someone else does.
Making the first move doesn't mean you're chasing anyone, unless you make the second move after getting the brush off on the first move. It's ok to show you're interested. If he's not, there are other fish in the sea.I'm tired of being made the fool, being made fun of, being treated like trash, etc etc.... I will no longer 'chase' anyone first. Every single time I've made the first call, I get laughed at, called fat, treated inhumane and end up crying. It's not worth it anymore, I'm not playing that anymore.
Welcome to what we have had to deal with since middle school. And unlike women, WE don't get together with our friends in your presence, shoot glances your way, and laugh.
There you go! Ultimately you get the final say in how you feel about something. You can choose to let it bother you, or just brush it off and get on your way to the next prospect.Don't let the haters bring you down!
Edited by Twinklez, 05 October 2006 - 07:23 PM.
Posted 06 October 2006 - 07:51 AM
Posted 06 October 2006 - 09:09 AM
I continue to sense in many of these posts that some women want it both ways.
Posted 06 October 2006 - 09:21 AM
Let's see Bill. I could use a dry suit, or maybe a modeling light for my camera. I would ask for an SLR, lenses, housing and strobes, but I don't want to seem like a golddigger...snip..(I prefer women who desire more substantive "gifts" anyway),
Posted 06 October 2006 - 10:00 AM
I don't necessarily disagree with you on this DrBill. I freely admit to my inconsistencies. I also wish that many men would as well.
With that being said, since when did being a modern feminist woman mean that you had to abdicate femininity?
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