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#61 jextract

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Posted 26 August 2004 - 05:45 PM

Jamie,

Your feedback brings this full circle. It is refreshing to see the depth of your comments and how well they do describe some of the relationship issues we face with different perspectives from men/women and yet all valid.

It was refreshing and you truly have you act together.

Thanks for your nice words!
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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:01 PM

Douglas,

But my dear, first you have to get our attention and then you have to try and keep it. Afterall, if we didn't make your head turn you'd only be men without woman.
LOL
Seriously neither gender can do without the other, it just doesn't work well otherwise. So we have to be nice to each other, civil at best. ,


agreed...but my dear, what's that...i haven't been a dear for sometime...and i think i may have actually blushed :welcome:

We all deserve more than civility, we deserve...that L word....you know the one....has a couple of other letters with it.... :usflag:
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#63 Sylvia

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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:19 PM

I got you to blush too?

Giving the L word like you said:

Yeah, I know that one but honestly the last time I used it, I was half asleep and the guy took it literally, haven't heard from him since. So, I've been traumatized...I can't say it anymore. Unless, you Douglas, Jaime, and the guys from SD can untraumatize me.

Receiving the L word:
Frankly, I'm a show-me kind of girl...show me the love, don't tell me. This seems to work for me.

Just can't say it....

#64 triggerfish

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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:32 PM

uh....hey. underwtl.......

this was a joke, right???

did all you people take serious pills or something?????

anyway, i thought the original post was hysterical!!!!

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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:52 PM

Gee, Sylvia, I never have any problem saying the "L" word. I lust in my heart and mind all the time.

Jamie- You sure know how to snow them on-line! Hey, when are you two going to come out and drink the champagne for my 900th dive? I'm already past 1,000!

Doc

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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:52 PM

uh....hey. underwtl.......

this was a joke, right???

did all you people take serious pills or something?????

anyway, i thought the original post was hysterical!!!!

Hey, someone with a sense of humor.... Thanks Trigger.... :2cool:
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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:54 PM

Gee, David it's the end of the day and we spent it with Jaime and Douglas. By the way did you get my email?

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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:55 PM

Douglas,

You have had the attention of not one but of two blondes the better part of the day...and you did have some interesting points.

David really did leave you unattended.

You will have to give me a break today... got into work, got a call 15min later telling me our sister company 60 miles away had a complete system failure! UGGGGGG!!! Was there all day.... no email, no internet, NO SD.com.... Whats a man supposed to do? :lam:
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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:56 PM

Doc,

I was sure that's what it was, so I fell asleep again, you know the headache excuse.

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Posted 26 August 2004 - 06:57 PM

David,

Now you are more creative than that.

#71 jextract

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Posted 27 August 2004 - 11:28 AM

Jamie- You sure know how to snow them on-line! Hey, when are you two going to come out and drink the champagne for my 900th dive? I'm already past 1,000!

Doc

Ouch!

I think we'll be over Labor Day weekend ... I guess we'll have to bring the pen and X out the 9 for a 10!
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#72 Sylvia

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Posted 27 August 2004 - 01:52 PM

Ok Jaime,

you said you want to x out the 9 for 10 but what about the last part of 10. I don't like that infidelity clause.

Infidelity: Running off at any time to console an ex-girl/boyfriend, ...

How can we strike this clause?

#73 jextract

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Posted 27 August 2004 - 02:27 PM

Sylvia,
My "Xing out the 9 and replacing it with a 10" related to a gift we gave Dr. Bill to celebrate his 900th dive - we gave him a bottle of Jordan champagne with an inscription "Congrats on 900!" (or similar). Dr. B graciously offered to share the bottle with us but unfortunately, due to scheduling constraints, we were unable to join him in popping the cork. Dr. B mentioned that he's logged another 100 since then putting him over 1000, and I was referring to changing the inscription on the bottle.
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#74 Sylvia

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Posted 27 August 2004 - 03:30 PM

Thanks Jaime for clearing that up...and congrads to Doc and also to Zendiver for their 1000+ dives!!! :wavey: :lol: :2cool: :2cool: :wub: :dance:




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