I'm not associating your views with DIR.
You aren't, but others are. Which is very unfair to DIR.
I don't think you are a peon, and I know you don't think you are a peon.
Come on now. You and I both know better. I am absolutely NOBODY in the realm of diving. I just like getting in the water time to time and having some new experiences...
Anyway, it's too easy to be a victim and blame it on DIR feeling that no one understands you.
Are you saying I did this? Like when I made this comment:
Don't blame my attitude on DIR. Has nothing at all to do with it. If you think my attitude is poor, that's fine. But it belongs to me alone and not to my diving system.
I am not laying ANYTHING at the feet of DIR or using it to absolve any of my statements.
It's a false argument to assume that the rift between DIR/non-DIR divers is because only one side values good buddy skills. For the most part there is no rift. The rift is from internet DIR divers lecturing every poster. In real life most DIR divers do not do this. The rift is mainly in the eyes of an overbearing, lecturing, internet DIR diver using that as an excuse for why other's aren't always interested in their posts.
As you well know, many divers value good buddy skills. Some agencies even teach it. Few seem to be as rigorous about it (from my limited experience) as GUE. Be that as it may, this is an internet forum. We are all able to offer our opinon as weighty or as worthless as it might be. There are no professors at the front of the class lecturing. There are only divers offering their opinion and perspective on matters. They may be right, or they may be wrong.
You've clearly done more diving than me. I've heard from other divers I respect that you are a good diver. I am sorry that you see me as overbearing and lecturing. And if you are uninterested in my posts, that's fine as well. You are free to tune them out. Perhaps after gaining as much experience as you, I will change my mind about diving. Perhaps not. Fortunately, it's a BIG world, and you needn't be worried about me or other internet DIR divers making the waters unsafe for you. We never get our gear wet anyway...