He should take any money earmarked for legal proceedings and use them for therapy. Much higher odds for a better outcome.
Boatlawyer is exactly right that this manipulative woman is an example of what collection attorneys would call "judgment-proof." Not judgment in the sense of the Christian/non-Christian debate earlier in the thread, but judgment in the legal definition of a court order to pay up. Getting that order is the easy part (easy, but not cheap) ... but collecting the first dime would be very difficult. To cite one famous case, just ask Ron Goldman how much he has collected in his multimillion dollar judgment against OJ Simpson. (answer: zero)
So while Boatlawyer's counsel to avoid the wasteful expense of litigation is wise, I must disagree with her when she suggests using the money for therapy instead. Paying $100 an hour to emote your woes while someone takes notes and says "hmm, how do you feel about that?" is even a bigger waste of money.
DrBill, tell your island-dwelling friend to spend his recovery money at the nearest dive shop. For less than the price of a months' worth for shrink visits, he can get his C-card and equipment. It will be the best therapy he's ever had, and who knows? He just might meet a quality woman for a change; the scuba world's full of them. I hear there's even a website out there just for single divers.
Yeah! Plus after getting bit by the dive bug he'll have no money to spend on manipulative women, what with all the travel, dive gear, happy hours....
But seriously, diving is great therapy for a broken heart, but to help make better choices in relationships, I have found therapy can really help. It is too easy to by into the "all women are" or "all men are" black and white thinking mode. Investing this kind of money into someone who was waving every shade of red flag indicates a serious need for re-wiring this guy's love machine.