Men and their buddy codes
#1
Posted 30 November 2006 - 12:59 PM
So here a question for the guys......do men have a code regarding this situation? And for the ladies, how would you have handled this situation.
Needless to say I was a little confused and frustrated.
#2
Posted 30 November 2006 - 01:21 PM
My take on this is that these are not close friends of yours, but of his. Therefore they might feel a little awkward or hesitant to do things with you that might be misconstrued and get back to the guy you are dating. I generally keep things clearly on the up-and-up with any woman in a committed relationship with another guy unless I know it is clear to her and to him that our relationship is one of friendship (or, on occasion, unrequited lust).
It's all a matter of how the other parties see it. Sounds like there is some unclear communication here (an d I don't mean on your part).
#3
Posted 30 November 2006 - 01:58 PM
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#4
Posted 30 November 2006 - 02:10 PM
Nonetheless, I'll pull the curtain back a tad and give you a peek. Sounds like he likes you since obviously his friends have gotten that info. He could just be busy with stuff right now. You could just give him a call and say "hey, I was just thinking about you" ...
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#5
Posted 30 November 2006 - 03:56 PM
#6
Posted 30 November 2006 - 05:53 PM
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#7
Posted 30 November 2006 - 09:47 PM
but yea there is a code...i think
but thats a good sign tho...kudos!
#8
Posted 01 December 2006 - 06:39 AM
Awww geeze. It's just dancing for crying out loud. Have these guys graduated high school?
There is no real "code" to speak of (that's my story and I'm sticking to it!) But I think you would have found it to have been a different situation if "Bob" was there. Even thought it's only dancing, when a buddy is starting a new relationship, his friends aren't going to step on that. Its more of a perseption thing than what their real intensions are (to just dance.)
For more on the rule for dating a girl that your friend broke up with, here is the actual footage...
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#9
Posted 01 December 2006 - 07:56 AM
That was funny. But once I get on YouTube, I can't stop!Awww geeze. It's just dancing for crying out loud. Have these guys graduated high school?
There is no real "code" to speak of (that's my story and I'm sticking to it!) But I think you would have found it to have been a different situation if "Bob" was there. Even thought it's only dancing, when a buddy is starting a new relationship, his friends aren't going to step on that. Its more of a perseption thing than what their real intensions are (to just dance.)
For more on the rule for dating a girl that your friend broke up with, here is the actual footage...
#10
Posted 01 December 2006 - 08:25 AM
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#11
Posted 01 December 2006 - 09:34 AM
#12
Posted 01 December 2006 - 10:49 AM
Yeah. I agree. Sometimes dating is just not worth it.Alrighty then. Basically there is a code. Got it. That was too funny, the tube thing. Where are the ladies on this one? I have come to one conclusion....dating is difficult....not always wonderful.....and sometimes just too much drama.
#13
Posted 01 December 2006 - 10:52 AM
Yeah. I agree. Sometimes dating is just not worth it.Alrighty then. Basically there is a code. Got it. That was too funny, the tube thing. Where are the ladies on this one? I have come to one conclusion....dating is difficult....not always wonderful.....and sometimes just too much drama.
#14
Posted 01 December 2006 - 11:00 AM
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#15
Posted 01 December 2006 - 11:35 AM
I am not a big dancer, so I can't speak for that scene. Like Dr. Bill, my preferred form of dancing is best done with slow music and a lady right next to me. In places that I have been at in the past, I have been known to dance with attached women that I know and their significant other is present. Normally, the guy is not interested in dancing with her on every slow song in that situation and she just wants to go out on the dance floor. But, I make every attempt to be a gentleman in that situation.
If the boyfriend is not around, see the first paragraph. Stories at work can get vicious and I don't need that grief.
You are right. Dating is a pain. But, it can fun as well .
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