Whats makes a soul mate?
#1
Posted 12 February 2007 - 01:01 PM
#2
Posted 12 February 2007 - 01:24 PM
#3
Posted 12 February 2007 - 01:35 PM
I'm sorry, that was just funny. I don't care who you are, that was funny.
On a serious note, I have my soul mate. Donna is my partner in life, she shares all of the fun, all of the heartaches. We don't always agree, but we always agree that whatever we disaggree about is never too important to keep us upset. I don't know if I can give you a definition, we fit.
Edited by Dennis, 12 February 2007 - 01:38 PM.
Dennis
"Suppose you were an idiot ... And suppose you were a member of Congress ... But I repeat myself." --Mark Twain
#4
Posted 12 February 2007 - 01:47 PM
Damn, Ellen, you sure have a lot of soul mates! And reasonable expectations to boot.If he has a pulse.
#5
Posted 12 February 2007 - 03:45 PM
Edited by drbill, 12 February 2007 - 03:46 PM.
#6 Guest_PlatypusMan_*
Posted 12 February 2007 - 03:59 PM
I just don't believe there is only one such person out there for each of us (if this were true, I'd have a very bleak future... nothing but meaningless sex and no more true love).
Sparky wants to know what your point is.
PlatypusMan
#7
Posted 12 February 2007 - 04:22 PM
Don't believe in the concept. However, I do believe there are some very special people out there that we each connect with in a more meaningful way than with most others. I just don't believe there is only one such person out there for each of us (if this were true, I'd have a very bleak future... nothing but meaningless sex and no more true love).
I don't believe in only one person for each of us. I think this message was put out there by women and men who met their best friend in high school and then married them, plus lived happily ever after.
If that had happened to me, I'd probably believe in "one soul mate" too. Honestly, I really believe that soulmate = best friend when that best friend is someone you are married to or have a significant relationship with. And I've had 2 true soulmates in my life by that theory
#8
Posted 12 February 2007 - 04:56 PM
#9
Posted 12 February 2007 - 08:05 PM
I have never had meaningless sex---knew a woman once that liked to have MEAN sex!!Don't believe in the concept. However, I do believe there are some very special people out there that we each connect with in a more meaningful way than with most others. I just don't believe there is only one such person out there for each of us (if this were true, I'd have a very bleak future... nothing but meaningless sex and no more true love).
#10
Posted 12 February 2007 - 09:20 PM
I've met two women like that in my life, but at some point, even though flow/easiness is still there, there isn't the same level of passion/intensity, and things just fade...
I've been wondering lately whether that soul-mateness is sustainable in the long run?
#11
Posted 12 February 2007 - 10:15 PM
In my limited experience, soul-mates are those with whom there is amazing flow and it's just easy.
I've met two women like that in my life, but at some point, even though flow/easiness is still there, there isn't the same level of passion/intensity, and things just fade...
I've been wondering lately whether that soul-mateness is sustainable in the long run?
I reckon it is but it takes work. I think due to the *Now!* and disposable mentality of society in general, some/most people just don't want to invest the time or put forth the effort in making a relationship succeed. We had a similar discussion here.
#12
Posted 12 February 2007 - 10:16 PM
With the billions of people on this planet (not to mention my friends on Xanadu), I can't imagine there wouldn't be at least a dozen or two women with whom I could have a "soulmate-like" relationship, maybe even hundreds of them. I just have to find out where they are, and neither Match.com nor Date.com has helped much.
#13
Posted 12 February 2007 - 10:54 PM
ie. that I was perfect, and a soulmate, completed her.
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I was in a christian class and heard about having a perfect mate picked out for me, but through the ages of time with sin all around and rampant that she ended up with someone else and now everybodys perfect mate is paired with the wrong person, some find a very close match, but nothing like it could be. This thought doesn't give alot of credit to GOD being in control, but its one of the things I remember from that class.
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#14
Posted 12 February 2007 - 11:03 PM
"A good marriage is like an interlocking neurosis, where the rocks in one person's head fill up the holes in the other's."
#15
Posted 12 February 2007 - 11:13 PM
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