First...what a cool thread...too funny...a bunch of single folks, half or more of us divorced, asking each other about the answers to male/female relationships...
Here's my totally unqualified opinion based on numerous failed relationships (but still trying)
Maybe I should just shut up...nah here goes
Real men.....open doors, pay for dinner, pick up their dates, deliver them home at the end of the night, admit when they're wrong, train their minds and their bodies to be strong and fit, do the dirty difficult dangerous tasks, are ready to die defending their families, country, neighbors, even strangers if it is needed and just, work til they die, drink coffee not tea, wear old T-shirts, get dirty, live dangerously and are adventurous at least sometimes, see the world in black-and-white, right-and-wrong and not in shades-of-grey, have no idea of what "being true to yourself" means because they always are, don't believe that there is such a thing as "balance" or "trying too hard" because they play to win, are simple uncomplicated creatures who say what they mean, and mean it when they say for in good times and bad, till death do us part. I can go on here but think that's enough. Lastly real men don't see any of this as being a doormat.
Now I'm really going to go out on a limb and speak for "real women". Real women may like sweet, sensitive, guys, and will be friends with them and even recommend them to their friends...but for themselves, they love and marry real men (see traits above).
Peter, what the heck is a "marriage equivalent"?
Standing by.
Edited by cmt489, 18 April 2009 - 07:30 PM.