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Separated, divorce pending, divorce final...
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, Jan 17 2012 04:25 PM
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Posted 05 February 2013 - 09:13 PM
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Posted 07 February 2013 - 04:32 PM
A lot of great comments on here. I've been on a flu diet, so, MIA.
To me, personally, this isn't a Mars vs. Venus issue, at all.
I have no aversion to getting into a relationship with anyone. I'm just in no hurry to do so! After 17 years of marriage & 25 years in the relationship, I am simply just enjoying life & keeping it simple. Needless to say, my tolerance for BS & drama has gone to absolutely zero. My focus is on my sons. I've never been into "hooking up". I refuse to subject my young men to a revolving door of women on an on-going basis. I've had a few nice ladies catch my eye in the last few years, though, none of those worked out (see above). I knew before I 1st got married that it would be a one-time proposition for me. I'd told myself that since I was a child. I'm not going to say that I'll NEVER get married, again. I can say, however, that it is highly unlikely. I'm done having kids, for certain. To me, that was always the real reason for the institution, anyhow. I would be willing to spend the rest of my days with the right person. Marriage just is improbable, to me. It's not a matter of trust, anymore. It's how I want to live the rest of my life, free to do as I wish, go where I please & DIVE ALL I CAN!!!
I wish you all the healing you seek & the happiness you deserve.
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To me, personally, this isn't a Mars vs. Venus issue, at all.
I have no aversion to getting into a relationship with anyone. I'm just in no hurry to do so! After 17 years of marriage & 25 years in the relationship, I am simply just enjoying life & keeping it simple. Needless to say, my tolerance for BS & drama has gone to absolutely zero. My focus is on my sons. I've never been into "hooking up". I refuse to subject my young men to a revolving door of women on an on-going basis. I've had a few nice ladies catch my eye in the last few years, though, none of those worked out (see above). I knew before I 1st got married that it would be a one-time proposition for me. I'd told myself that since I was a child. I'm not going to say that I'll NEVER get married, again. I can say, however, that it is highly unlikely. I'm done having kids, for certain. To me, that was always the real reason for the institution, anyhow. I would be willing to spend the rest of my days with the right person. Marriage just is improbable, to me. It's not a matter of trust, anymore. It's how I want to live the rest of my life, free to do as I wish, go where I please & DIVE ALL I CAN!!!
I wish you all the healing you seek & the happiness you deserve.
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Posted 25 February 2019 - 12:15 PM
I have been divorced for three years and never saw it coming but I also work shift work and never see the light of day some months.
I thank my lucky stars that I live in Wyoming. From the day I was hit with the divorce, it only took 30 days for a finalized decree. We only had to work out the details and I let him have all of the material objects that he wanted to keep him out of my retirement. He got the newer but not very nice property and I kept my little castle.
Being in law enforcement is hard on marriages. At any one time, 1/4 of my department may find themselves at the mercy of the courts and dividing hard earned property.
Ive learned that it is just stuff and it can be replaced but my heart can't handle anymore infidelity... two marriages by infidelity was two many.
Not sure where that will lead me in the future...
I thank my lucky stars that I live in Wyoming. From the day I was hit with the divorce, it only took 30 days for a finalized decree. We only had to work out the details and I let him have all of the material objects that he wanted to keep him out of my retirement. He got the newer but not very nice property and I kept my little castle.
Being in law enforcement is hard on marriages. At any one time, 1/4 of my department may find themselves at the mercy of the courts and dividing hard earned property.
Ive learned that it is just stuff and it can be replaced but my heart can't handle anymore infidelity... two marriages by infidelity was two many.
Not sure where that will lead me in the future...
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