Posted 25 February 2019 - 12:15 PM
I have been divorced for three years and never saw it coming but I also work shift work and never see the light of day some months.
I thank my lucky stars that I live in Wyoming. From the day I was hit with the divorce, it only took 30 days for a finalized decree. We only had to work out the details and I let him have all of the material objects that he wanted to keep him out of my retirement. He got the newer but not very nice property and I kept my little castle.
Being in law enforcement is hard on marriages. At any one time, 1/4 of my department may find themselves at the mercy of the courts and dividing hard earned property.
Ive learned that it is just stuff and it can be replaced but my heart can't handle anymore infidelity... two marriages by infidelity was two many.
Not sure where that will lead me in the future...
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