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[Cold_H2O]

Later on, when they're not so attractive, jaded beyond belief, and don't know you exist because they have to get the kids to soccer practice, that's when you start hanging out with the guys.

Once you can no longer take the attitude and the neglect, then you start cave diving.

Trace

Trace ~ Dear some of us are not jaded at least not yet. I have to agree hanging out with the guys has always been fun.

Not sure if I am less attractive now or not but I do know I am alot more fun at 40 than I was at 20.

[morris0352]

What a coincidence because I'm having more fun seeing this 40 year old than I have with any 20 year old

[Dive_Girl]

I think I'm too "young" for this conversation...

[morris0352]

just a little bit for my tastes

[Dive_Girl]

that's not what I meant!

[bahloola]

i think morris will take anything u can throw at him somebodys got a tell him people are not like wine they dont get better with age hehe no offense to anyone but i am enjoying my twentys but nothing beats meeting a mature girl that has her head screwed on straight not like some of these crazys i keep meeting in L A

[TraceMalin]

nothing beats meeting a mature girl that has her head screwed on straight

Andy,

You just don't understand women yet do you?

Trace

[annasea]

nothing beats meeting a mature girl that has her head screwed on straight

Andy,

You just don't understand women yet do you?

Trace

Hmmm... shouldn't the names be reversed?

[Twinklez]

nothing beats meeting a mature girl that has her head screwed on straight

Andy,

You just don't understand women yet do you?

Trace

Trace? Gosh, is it me or did I pick up a sense of irritation when it comes to having a family and growing old together?

This is my philosophy... No chance, No dance! Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved. Reach for star; you may catch the moon! Get over it!

Now...I'm not perfect. I have my battle scars. I'm scared to death when it comes to relationships. But...I refuse to give up! I want love, I need love, and I must give love. That's just the way it is.

So... get on with it...who ever "that one girl is" kiss her you fool! The joy will far outweigh the pain in the end.

[TraceMalin]

nothing beats meeting a mature girl that has her head screwed on straight

Andy,

You just don't understand women yet do you?

Trace

Trace? Gosh, is it me or did I pick up a sense of irritation when it comes to having a family and growing old together?

This is my philosophy... No chance, No dance! Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved. Reach for star; you may catch the moon! Get over it!

Now...I'm not perfect. I have my battle scars. I'm scared to death when it comes to relationships. But...I refuse to give up! I want love, I need love, and I must give love. That's just the way it is.

So... get on with it...who ever "that one girl is" kiss her you fool! The joy will far outweigh the pain in the end.

Your philosophy IS my philosophy. I just said that "I could have missed the pain, but then I'd had to have missed the dance," the other day regarding my relationship with Lisa this past summer. It's hard to regret having loved so strongly despite the amount of injury left in the wake of an affair.

Folks around here have to understand that I have a very sarcastic and tongue-in-cheek sense of humor. I bust on just about everything. So, I was just making light of the fact that relationships often change over time and the poor guy will probably be completely taken for granted someday, but that will be okay, because that's when you start hanging out with the guys again.

I'm a hopeless romantic, yet a realist at the same time. I have no problem risking my life or my heart. Some peoplev think I may even be too cavalier about risking both.

I just wanted to support Andy in his quest in a humorous way.

As far as me kissing that girl, that will have to wait, not because I wouldn't try. She's just not in my proximity at the moment.

Trace

[TraceMalin]

nothing beats meeting a mature girl that has her head screwed on straight

Andy,

You just don't understand women yet do you?

Trace

Hmmm... shouldn't the names be reversed?

No, I know women are insane and he'll never find one with her head screwed on straight. He thought he had hope of finding that. His bad.

This is a joke. This is only a joke. I adore women and hold them in the highest regard in general.

Trace

[TraceMalin]

Later on, when they're not so attractive, jaded beyond belief, and don't know you exist because they have to get the kids to soccer practice, that's when you start hanging out with the guys.

Once you can no longer take the attitude and the neglect, then you start cave diving.

Trace

Trace ~ Dear some of us are not jaded at least not yet. I have to agree hanging out with the guys has always been fun.

Not sure if I am less attractive now or not but I do know I am alot more fun at 40 than I was at 20.

Oh, I'm sorry, sweetie. I'll have to trade you in for two 20's.

Trace

[Cold_H2O]

Oh, I'm sorry, sweetie. I'll have to trade you in for two 20's.

Trace

You would trade me.. For 2 20's????
Wheres the love huh?

[mongoose]

Or 2/5ths of a hundred.

[jt0001]

I do have some experience on this topic having live to the ripe age of 50. I have gotten better every year for the past 5 years including but not limited to health, hobbies and all that fun stuff that happens when you aren’t so worried about your career and having someone in you life. It all seems to flow much more easily when you just let life happen. Point is when you’re not looking for things all the time they seem to find you.