Even though I do not live in a colder region, I never dive in a wetsuit almost ever. So, my drysuit gets lots of use, and I am pretty particular about several drysuit issues. I am sure that some or many might not agree with my decisions/theories, but here they are anyway.
Thermals: Too many people count on the drysuit working properly when selecting thermals. Okay, folks, it's time to play "what if . . . ?"
What if your suit floods and then you have to spend an extended time in the water that turns out to be cooler than anticipated?
Suppose the dive boat leaves you behind, and you are left floating in the water for a few hours?
Suppose the current sweeps you away, and you are drifting for a long time until rescued/you can exit the water?
Suppose you are called upon to overstay your bottom time due to things like assisting a buddy, entanglement in fishing line, etc?
Is your underwear selection selection still appropriate for the above? If not, change to thermals that are prepared to handle the day.
I am a big fan of Thinsulate. It is stated to preserve warmth when fairly wet. Even for my warmest water diving, I make sure my thermal insulation includes a light weight Thinsulate just in case . . . . I have suits in 40, 100, 200 and 400 weight Thinsulate. So, I just change undies depending on the intended temperature range.
Liners: Silk Weight underwear from any hiking shop should fit the bill. Some are even treated to absorb oders. Even with my lightest weight underwear, I always use the silk weight liners. This will keep moisture from touching your skin so much, keeping you warmer and more comfortable.
Custom suits: You know your body type. You know whether you can get away with a standard size or not. If you can't, get a custom fitted suit. It sucks paying for it. However, you are going to be using this suit for a number of years. It will annoy you everytime you use your suit if it does not fit you properly. Don't say I didn't warn you.
Leaking Seals: Drysuits will occasionally allow some water entry due to body type (wrist tendons) or your positioning (such as straining your neck to look down, etc.) However, it is not normal for a lot of water to enter on every dive. If this is a consistent pattern, something is not right.
Also note that your body is always releasing some moisture through the pores, typically sweat vapor. Your suit will trap this inside, and this can give the newbie the impression that the suit is leaking when opening the suit to find moist underwear. Normal sweating will cause fairly uniform moisture patterns over the thermals. So, if you find a particular area that is quite wet compared to others, this is from a leak and not sweating.
User Replaceable Seals: I am a big fan of this. Your seals will tear at the worst time possible, such as when you arrive for that week long dive vacation or some other exotic experience of a lifetime. I carry a spare set of seals for both wrist and neck in my dive kit, and I can change my seals in about 10 minutes or less. DUI ZipSeals are the brand that I use on my suit. (I even have a set of neoprene ZipGloves for that day when I will return to cold water diving. I can switch from my latex seals to the ZipGloves in just a few minutes, and then I can change back to the regular seals easily.) There are other brands/ways to do most of this. So, you should look into the issue when doing your research. Do not go duct taping your suit unless an emergency field repair.
Latex Allergies: Many people have this problem. However, it could just be the reaction to the prior user's skin oil on the rental suit. It can also be blocked pores due to the tight fitting seals for long periods of time. Try soap and water as soon as possible after emerging from your suit. Alcohol (on the skin, not down your throat
) might also lessen the effect. See a dermatologist for the real answer.