Pros and Cons being single
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, Jan 08 2010 07:22 PM
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Posted 02 February 2010 - 05:21 PM
Scott are you still employed with the CIA or was it the FBI? I get so confused.
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Posted 02 February 2010 - 10:14 PM
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I'm offended by this guy post and sending this to the moderator for review...please pull these posts until this matter is resolved.
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Posted 03 February 2010 - 02:24 AM
This is absolutely the best post I have ever seen!!!
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Posted 03 February 2010 - 07:22 PM
Thanks! I don't pull that one out very often, but it seemed particularly appropriate at the time.
Edited by Victoria, 03 February 2010 - 07:23 PM.
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"Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it." -- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
"The right thing to do never requires any subterfuge, it is always simple and direct." -- Calvin Coolidge
"Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it." -- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
"The right thing to do never requires any subterfuge, it is always simple and direct." -- Calvin Coolidge
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Posted 25 September 2012 - 10:40 AM
Hello how is everyone doing here? I am single myself. I have been for some time.
I meet women but the relationship never goes anywhere (Bummer).
The pros are: I do what I want, buy what I want, go where I want. The only person I am responsible for is myself. I currently own my own security company. I am working hard to make money so I can afford these extravagant vacations.
I can take a dive trip any time pending on business issues and my Regional officer running the company. Those are the pros.
The cons are: Your always lonely, probably not having sex too often (personal) have no romance, your heart is empty and lonely, don't have the joy from that person in your life. See it goes both ways.
My suggestion is too be happy single or not. Don't deny happiness from this. Make friends, have a great attitude and that will rub off of others. When your not expecting it that person will come.
I would love to meet a nice women from this group that enjoys diving. I'm not holding my breath over it! How do you upload your picture here so people can view me? I tried several times and will not work. Maybe a nice women will be interested in me here. Who knows.
Please feel free to comment from this thread.
Have a nice day and a wonderful dive. I will join you all soon.
Pros- you can pee on the toilet seat and leave it till it dries...
Cons- you have to actually get up to get the remote control instead of waiting 20 minutes through Oprah until the wife passes through the living room.
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Posted 25 September 2012 - 11:46 AM
LC... has it occurred to you that maybe you were meant to be single? I'm just saying... 
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Posted 25 September 2012 - 01:32 PM
LC... has it occurred to you that maybe you were meant to be single? I'm just saying...
Most definately...My humor is not based on my very amicable Divorce, it's based on my unhappy childhood...is it normal for parents to set you on a doorstep and run?
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Posted 25 September 2012 - 01:54 PM
Not usually...unless you have horns coming out of your head... 
Or your dad found out your real dad was "the family guy".... LOL!
Or your dad found out your real dad was "the family guy".... LOL!
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"Imitation is the sincerest flattery." - Gandhi
"Imitation is proof that originality is rare." - ScubaHawk
SingleDivers.com...often imitated...never duplicated!
Kamala Shadduck c/o SingleDivers.com LLC
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Posted 28 November 2012 - 07:59 AM
There are a lot of pros to being single. A relationship is like a garage sale- at a distance it looks like it could be interesting but up close it's just a ton of crap you don't need.
But I don't think of myself as single anymore. I'm in a long term relationship with adventure and fun :-)
But I don't think of myself as single anymore. I'm in a long term relationship with adventure and fun :-)
The sea, once it casts its spell, holds one in its net of forever - Jacques Cousteau
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Posted 28 November 2012 - 12:08 PM
The longer I am single, the more I cherish my individuality & freedom. 
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Posted 02 December 2012 - 11:49 PM
HEELLLL YEAH! NOBODY tells me I can't go diving LOL!!! Being single ROCKS!!! 
Ain't love a BEACH?
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Posted 12 October 2013 - 07:56 PM
Do you want to be lonely or annoyed? That's great. Just rock your life man, b4 you know it will be over. Don't dwell on what you don't have and think you want, just be ok with where you are. Where are you---HERE,,, What time is it----NOW,, What are you---THIS MOMENT..
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Posted 13 October 2013 - 01:23 AM
1. Thanks for introducing us to an old friend... old threads are like that! 
2. Good insight Regulator...
3. Its better to be single and moderately happy than married and miserable. Every situation has its pros and cons....and depending on where in life you are...either by choice or by chance...determines how most of us deal with things. But if you are always "HAPPY" no matter what cards you've been dealt...chances are you'll stay in the game longer to get dealt a better hand. If you are not happy...well lets just say you'll spend most of your time 'folding'.
2. Good insight Regulator...
3. Its better to be single and moderately happy than married and miserable. Every situation has its pros and cons....and depending on where in life you are...either by choice or by chance...determines how most of us deal with things. But if you are always "HAPPY" no matter what cards you've been dealt...chances are you'll stay in the game longer to get dealt a better hand. If you are not happy...well lets just say you'll spend most of your time 'folding'.
Contact me directly at Kamala@SingleDivers.com for your private or group travel needs or 864-557-6079 AND don't miss SD's 2018-2021 Trips! ....here! Most are once in a lifetime opportunities...don't miss the chance to go!!
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"Imitation is the sincerest flattery." - Gandhi
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SingleDivers.com...often imitated...never duplicated!
Kamala Shadduck c/o SingleDivers.com LLC
2234 North Federal Hwy, #1010 Boca Raton, FL 33431
formerly...
710 Dive Buddy Lane; Salem, SC 29676
864-557-6079 tel/celfone/office or tollfree fax 888-480-0906
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Posted 13 October 2013 - 10:09 AM
I agree with Regulator and WreckWench...being single definately has it pros and an unhappy relationship well yikes. 
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I also want to say Happy Thanksgiving Weekend to all the Canadians
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cheers
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1. Thanks for introducing us to an old friend... old threads are like that!
2. Good insight Regulator...
3. Its better to be single and moderately happy than married and miserable. Every situation has its pros and cons....and depending on where in life you are...either by choice or by chance...determines how most of us deal with things. But if you are always "HAPPY" no matter what cards you've been dealt...chances are you'll stay in the game longer to get dealt a better hand. If you are not happy...well lets just say you'll spend most of your time 'folding'.
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