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[annasea]

You see passion is a lot like crockpot cooking... you put all the ingredients together in the morning, then you add the proper spices periodically, occasionally stir it and let it simmer nice and slow all day long... then by suppertime, it's an absolute delicacy. 

So when's dinner??? or :anna: or

[Neptuner]

Well, that is true. But, if you constantly leave your dirty socks lying around the house, or wet towels on the bathroom floor, that's a big turn off. I used to tell my late husband, sex doesn't begin in the bedroom.

I promise darlin', I'm housebroken from being raised with 5 sisters... I even lift the toilet seat up AND put it back down...

So when's dinner???

Why Miss annasea, you little vixen you.... now I'm really hungry. Wonder if they have any airline deals to B.C. right now?

[annasea]

Wonder if they have any airline deals to B.C. right now? 

www.travelocity.com

[Walter]

LOL!!!!!

Time to put up or shut up, Michael. (I think she's a keeper)

[annasea]

(I think she's a keeper)

Walter!!!

You have most definitely made my day . . .


(But wait! Maybe Michael can do you one better! )

[Walter]

He just might get on that plane............

[blacklatexozdiver]

(I think she's a keeper)

Ya think??

[Walter]

I do.

[blacklatexozdiver]

I do.

and here's me thinking you'd say "I know!"

[annasea]

I do.

and here's me thinking you'd say "I know!"

Now, now, Wes. Walter wouldn't kiss-and-tell. Too much the gentleman, I reckon.

[blacklatexozdiver]

Now, now, Wes. Walter wouldn't kiss-and-tell. Too much the gentleman, I reckon.

One may still be a gentleman, without resorting to "kissing and telling" and still know you are a keeper. I can tell you are from down (up) here.

[Neptuner]

Ain't she just the darlin'est little thang!

I could not agree more Walter and Wes, your wisdom is truly inspiring gentlemen.

I'm still searching like crazy for that killer fare... think I'll just have to squeeze it in after the Grenada adventure. I'm always up for some northern exposure! (feel free to read into that one)

So annasea, we need to start talkin' dates, times and locations... better take this to PM. Bye boys...

[Twinklez]

My former fiancée is quite independent.

Annasea...he did say "former" right? Meaning, they got together...but it didn't quite work.

So goes for me...it's fascinating, mysterious, and something to be admired when a woman is independent. But for many men, not necessarily those in our SD group, but for others it is difficult to "compete" (for lack of a better word), and men are quite competitive in nature.

Goes back to the "bad boy" thing even. The Bad Boy looks and acts very confident...but often that's just a cover for the soft hearted sentimental man buried underneath scared to death he'll be discovered. When actually the real person behind the facade is probably a very wonderful man...or could be.

So take this man, already hiding from himself and the world, and pair him up with a no nonsense woman who takes charge and does what needs to be done when it needs to be done. How long do you think it will be till he shrivels up with feelings of insecurity or inadequacy?

For a truly confident man, not one hiding behind the Bad Boy facade, it's no problem. But how many of us, men and women alike, don't hide behind a little bit of something? Thus, the truly confident man is few and far between; making the chances of a confident man and independent woman pairing up even less likely.

Hey...it's reality, but it doesn't mean that I'm not going to have fun looking!

[Twinklez]

Ain't she just the darlin'est little thang!

I could not agree more Walter and Wes, your wisdom is truly inspiring gentlemen.

I'm still searching like crazy for that killer fare... think I'll just have to squeeze it in after the Grenada adventure. I'm always up for some northern exposure! (feel free to read into that one)

So annasea, we need to start talkin' dates, times and locations... better take this to PM. Bye boys...

Goodness! What one misses during a long day of work... There is just way too much fun going on here!

Annasea, I think I'd start looking at my calendar! (Especially after that crockpot analogy.)

Twinklez

[blacklatexozdiver]

My former fiancée is quite independent.

Annasea...he did say "former" right? Meaning, they got together...but it didn't quite work.

True. She chose to stay in Canada (family ties too strong being a big influence) thus we're not together.

Oh... and I don't have a bad boy nor confident facade. (and could never have, not matter how hard I tried!!!!)

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