I'm with Perrone. I had already detected that climactic change in college. Even if I really wanted to initiate something, I'd pretty much let the girl become frustrated enough to discover the boldness to ask. If it seems like it's time for the first kiss, I'll take it slowly, move in slowly, make sure she's as into wanting to kiss as much as I do and if I detect NTA (nose tilt angle) from her then I'll consider that a green light and kiss her. As for sex, no way. That's entirely in her court.I'll make it clear I'm interested, but that's about as far as it goes. Political climate these days have become contrary to guys making the "first move". Too easy for signals to get crossed. Ramifications for mistakes too severe.
Trace