I've certainly pondered that over the years (fortunately came up empty) .... but as I get older, I'm sure I get more set in my ways.... and less tolerant of bs ... looking on the dive boat would be great place to find someone... and maybe someday I will, but I haven't seen hardly any 'single' women divers where I am.....(admittedly however, I don't look that hard).
There aren't many female divers around here either. Invariably I'm the only single diver on my dive trips, so meeting ladies on dive boats also hasn't worked out. Of course, my idea of a lady diver apparently differs from many of the women I've talked to.
I had dinner with a lady a few weeks ago. She said she was a serious diver and loved diving, and had just returned from a dive trip to the Bahamas. She was amazed that I was going to do 20 dives or so on my trip to Grand Cayman last week. On her dive trip to the Bahamas she made TWO dives.
I'm not a diehard diver by any means. I'm not going to make 30-40 dives a week, that's just not fun to me. I like to relax, talk to my tripmates, enjoy a good cigar, sightsee, etc.
I'm with casematic though, I'm not looking very hard. There's too many other things out there to enjoy.