Wow! This thread has traversed a LOT of terrain in its wanderings! And, like most trails that one will follow, the most interesting things are discovered during the journey. We often lose sight of that because we are so focused on the destination (e.g. a marriage, a family, sex or whatever) that much of what is truly important, or relevant, is missed or ignored. The original question was about how we know when someone is interested
? That question produced a wide variety of answers and tangents for which there seemed to be a couple of common themes: HONESTY, or a 2x4 upside the head
. Either option can leave one dazed
... or seriously hurt
... or without question about how someone feels (e.g.
,
,
,
, etc.). Based on the thread, honesty (with one's self or another) is apparently less desireable to use than a 2x4 (i.e see the number of people requesting it be used as a sign of "interest" - but that is another topic and thread in and of itself
). However, and this is
VERY important, the use of honesty is far less likely to get one thrown in jail than the use of a 2x4. AND [in most cases] is sufficient, and much more likely, to produce the desired results. That being said, I'd like to think that I wouldn't need a 2x4 upside my head in order for a woman to get her point across, so if being honest and direct are not an option I'd find it helpful - and extremely clarifying - if she simply threw herself on me.
~J
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So what type of indication do you have to have to know if someone is interested in you?
Me? A 2x4 up side you head followed by "hey I like you, your cute" I know it seems a little hard headed of me, but thats the way I am. I flirt with gals but its all in fun, just trying to do my part and put a smile on someones face. So flirting to me is just a past time, each one putting a smile on each others face and seeing if you can make them blush. So when some gal flirts with me I think she is just being friendly. I really don't know if she is interested in me or just trying to make me smile.
So what do other people need to see or hear before there off the the chase.