In other words there are some people whom I consider good friends that I'm NOT a smartass with (and it's really hard holding it back) because they'd simply be insulted.
So true! Thank you for writing this, Tina! Nothing worse than someone turning on the charm solely to attract another's attention. As you say, if that's how s/he really is, it's fine, but otherwise, don't waste my time. I once met someone who was just an absolute delight! At first. Then with time, all that playfulness and whimsy disappeared. Had I known what this person's true nature really was, I never would have spent so much energy on him. I tried numerous times to find an explanation for the behaviour change... assumed it was my fault, but frankly, I feel he deliberately misrepresented himself.I don't want someone on their best behavior unless that's how they most always are. I don't want to be teased so much early on though either, unless that's who you are. Remember, you're just getting to know each other and sometimes it's hard to tell how to take someone who's being playful, especially if he's doing it because he think he should. I prefer a little mischief mixed with an equal amount of substantial conversation or interaction.
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Jim,
Based solely on your writings and hearsay, you are indeed a gem! I have no doubt you'll find what you're looking for and so richly deserve.