In dating some one younger, one thing I have found and most of my peers will agree, which are Men or Women, as you get older, through your experiences you have learned a lot. Whether it be in business, dating etc...you have heard it all…or almost...now it depends on how you much you want to be amused, tolerance for the excuses or if you choose to believe.
Recently I met someone on a plane (a few months ago) we hit it off. Chemistry was there, she was attractive, articulate, held a top job with a major cosmetics manufacture, about 15 years younger and she had been a partner in a Major SoCal company she built over the last ten years with her Ex. Most importantly she was not needy! Perhaps the perfect match?
Due to our travel schedules and she lived an hour away it took about a month to get together. We got together a couple of times had a great time...then she had no time to get together....(here is where experience comes into play)….The Rhetoric starts...or lets call it what it is BS....I amused myself for a few weeks getting the hour long phone calls....the e-mails.....finally I responded to one of her e-mails...am I your Phone and E-mail Boytoy?.....If you are back together with your Ex or met someone else...please lets move on or be buddies yada yada....Well if fact I was right….which is Ok….
The point being….is trying not to become Jaded or Cynical…because you have heard it all….But dating someone younger (which i perfer)…..you can usually spot the Rhetoric…a mile away….But I will Endeavor to Pursue……maybe she is out there…..In the meantime…Palau, Belize, Bali/Timor, Rangiroa and a couple of other trips await me…for 2006....